Quiet Silent Memorial Weekend

Sometimes I experience uncomfortable in a quiet place, especially meeting some one new. So I would try to make some conversation, gesture, or even smoke to show my coolness (actually the smoking part is back in the day). However there is a stage we just don't talk much but able to live in our comfort zone. Just like a very old couple, while the passion no longer the issue of their relationship, companionship is more than what so ever.
Ok, I think that is just like the memorial weekend I had, did not really do much, but totally in my comfort zone. Warm sunny day,very good friend visit, parents are around, cuddling with my beautiful daughter and wife Thanks Jesus for all of this.

Are you ready to party?

Mr T!!! I have just changed the tire to off road, and awaiting for you to show up, then we will rock the dirt road...bring your riding apparel...Long weekend...wohoo!!!

ESL (English as Second Language)

Almost ten years in state, sometimes I still have some hard time to pronoun differently couple words, like bitch and beach, labor and label, sheet and shit, dead and dad...still remember before El was borned, I told my friend," I am gonna be dad" that sounds similar to " I am gonna be dead", darn big different...
I do not stay with my dad. Until recently, he paided me a visit to see his young grand daughter, El. We have a chance to talk, and the conversation we had mainly toward our life prospective, it lures ton of the back in the time memory. Well, time past, things change...but most of the thing still the same in the inside. Our conversation lure the awkward experience of bike riding, first time dad bought me a wrist watch, and found this watch after missing couple years, things like that...close my eyes and recollect, man...I feel the same as may be 15 years before inside out, I would still hold my breath if I chose my watch today, I still love riding nowaday...all of this, make the today me...a simple man people known. With many many appreciation to this real man in the picture.

Granted

1 + 1 =2, I always like to use this metaphor to describe something which is truth and occurs according to expected principle. But who know it could be an understatement in one day. I found today man (included woman) inhabits a lot in this evolution principle too. No scientific talk here, I am talking about human daily behavior. For example, people starts judging thing by patent, receive according to it should be(naturally), taking things for granted. Occasionally they do not receive the outcome they expected it should be, they become upset, feeling imbalance in their emotional quality, feeling great disappointment or even emotionally lose control.
People, I feel like nothing in this world is granted. Friends around us, the food on your dining table, air you breath in, parents who still being well, a healthy daughter, your physical limbs and even the toilet paper you use for your morning glory. All of this is great from the creator. So be appreciate, be thankful to all of these, then you will feel extremely lucky and happy, you will not whine and cry. So, brother, be happy the next morning you still able to breath in the fresh air. So go and call your mum now, tell her you love her for this coming mother's day...last, next time while you say" Thanks god", at least show you really mean it.